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Wednesday, July 10, 2013

My First Blog Ever

I’ve been meaning to start a blog for quite some time now but I couldn’t pin point exactly what I wanted to blog about.  I check out others blogs on the daily, my best friend/sister as we call each other, has a blog and I was browsing one day and saw this list of 101 things in 1001 days.  Oh my god, I have to do this! Why must you ask? Well here’s a little back story as to how I got to this point.  A few months ago my best friend from college spent some time in Thailand and it simply stole her heart and she wants to pack everything up and move to the land of smiles.  Then I started talking myself into the idea of spending 6 months or so there myself, why not?  Well, I would be leaving behind my handsome boyfriend and our two dogs, Mouse and Dragon.  I haven’t found that one thing in my life that I love to do.  I do know that working is not my passion, I'm the farthest thing from career driven.  I just don’t know what I love nor have I really ever done anything for me and that’s why this trip sounded perfect. 

I talked to the boyfriend about it and at first he was totally for it and was like go that sounds amazing, wish I could go with, blahhh, blahhhh…Until I was dead serious about it, he didn’t quite take to the idea and said well what about our relationship?  That’s a really long time, I mean he had his concerns as would anyone and we had our share of emotional conversations regarding this topic aka me bawling my eyes because that’s what I do.   I know if I went on that trip I would come back as a different person, no matter what.  Coming back what would happen to our relationship?  That totally scares me because he would miss out on a big adventure that was life changing for me.  At the same time I struggle with the thought of not doing something because of a guy, especially a guy I’m not married to, life is too short not to follow your dreams.  After much thought and I mean a lot, pretty sure it consumed my brain, I decided not to pack my bags and move across the world.  I'm by no means ready to make that kind of decision, nor am I ready to leave Phil and my pups for that long. 

So this brings me to the list 101 Things in 1001 Days, I thought that by writing a list of 101 things of places I want to go (Thailand is on the list, we will see what happens with this), goals I want to accomplish, challenges I want to undertake, adventures that tickle my fancy, and simply holding myself accountable, this might be a good way of doing something for me.   Why not make this as an excuse to finally start blogging and have this be a fun way to document my journey.  I hope to learn more about myself and find the things that I love to do.  Thanks for joining me on this crazy ride, buckle up, oh and grab a glass of wine because who knows what can happen!

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12 comments:

  1. Love it! You go girl. This should be in your about me somewhere or link to it or something because it makes complet sense for everything. Oh and P.S. thanks for not moving to Thailand. I already don't see you enough.

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  2. Love your blog name!!! Can't wait to read more :)

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  3. Welcome to blogland! I'm excited to read more of your stuff!

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  4. Nice to meet you, Meghan! I love Two Thirds Hazel so I'm excited to follow along with you now as well! :-)

    Sarah @ Life As Always

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  5. welcome!! i love erin so happy to follow along!! i started blogging because of my IRL (in-real-life...the lingo takes some time to get used to ;)) best friends were already blogging :)

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  6. Definitely don't NOT do something bc of a boy, you might end up regretting it in the long run but if you're anything like me ... I've made up my mind to move to 3 different countries before I was even 20 so I think it's important to do like you said and make a list of things you want to do and work towards crossing them off the list!!

    Welcome to blogging!

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  7. Welcome I am a new blogger as well! I absolutely love the name and happy to follow along! I look forward to hearing more from you!

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  8. Thanks for all the love! I was super nervous to get this blog started but now I'm super excited! Can't wait to share my stories with you all.

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  9. Welcome to blog land! I read your about page and I'm moving to Indy in less than a month/ attended college there! Can't wait to read more!

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  10. I just came across your blog (from bloglovin') and I thought I'd just say hi! I am really excited to read more about your journey and about your 101 in 1001. I have been blogging (on and off and not so well) for a few years. It can take a lot of time and dedication but you seem to have your heart and mind in the right place to be doing this. Congrats on starting a blog!

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  11. New follower! This is a great story, I can't wait to read more!

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  12. I just came across your blog, and am looking forward to following along. Your Thailand story is really interesting to me because I am actually going there for my honeymoon in a couple of weeks! I'm looking forward to checking out your 101 in 1001 as soon as I'm finished writing this (especially as I just made a similar list as well!). Good luck on the list!

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